Wow, what a depressing documentary!
I’m taking about Gary, which is currently streaming on Peacock. Gary tells the story of former child actor-turned-security guard Gary Coleman, who went from being one of the top stars in television to eventually struggling to pay the bills. The documentary tells the story of Coleman’s life, from his start as a cute kid with a mischievous smile to his stardom, his health struggles, and the controversy over why all the money that he made as a child eventually disappeared. Gary blamed his parents. His parents blamed Gary’s managers. The woman who eventually married Gary blamed everyone. Gary, himself, ended up as tabloid fodder, in which he was treated as not only being the poster child for the problems that young stars encounter but in which he was also regularly ridiculed for having those exact same problems. Watching the documentary, one gets the feeling that the world took an odd joy in Gary Coleman’s downfall. Coleman himself died under mysterious circumstances and the documentary, though even-handed, leaves one feeling that there’s definitely a lot about his death that could stand to be examined.
Gary Coleman’s stardom was a bit before my time, though I have seen a few episodes of Diff’rent Strokes online. The show, to be honest, always seems a bit cringey to me but, still, it’s obvious that Coleman was a capable actor even when he was having to repeat the catch phrases that he came to hate. Unfortunately, his kidney problem stunted his growth and, as he got older, the acting opportunities dried up. He was reduced to parodying his former stardom, appearing on talk shows and sitcoms and repeating, “What you talkin’ about” to anyone who asked. The documentary was painfully sad to watch. Gary Coleman definitely comes across as being a bit of an eccentric but it’s hard not to feel that he never allowed to grow up and that the people who should have been looking out for him, like his parents and his manager and his wife, were only looking out for themselves.
The film features interviews with the people who failed Coleman. None of them really take any sort of responsibility for their actions. At first, his wife comes across like she really cared about him but, as the documentary progresses, we hear too many stories about her abusing and manipulating him to take anything she says at face value. When she sells a picture of Coleman on his death bed to a tabloid, that’s pretty much last straw as far as any sympathy for her is concerned. Coleman’s business manager also initially comes across as being genuine and sincere but, again, there are just too many stories of misusing Coleman’s money. If he doesn’t seem to be as ruthlessly mercenary as Coleman’s wife, it’s still obvious that he shouldn’t have been managing Coleman’s career. As for Coleman’s parents, the less said about them the better. Everyone that is interviewed is very good at blaming someone else for what happened after Coleman’s stardom ended.
Again, this was depressing documentary. Watching this, I really felt bad about Gary Coleman. It’s hard to know what to do about child stars. On the one hand, there are child stars who grow up to lead what appear to be perfectly normal and stable lives. But, there’s also a lot like Gary Coleman, whose lives are pretty much destroyed by their early success. No kid should be supporting their family. And no family should be paying their bills exclusively with their kid’s salary. To me, it all comes down to the parents. You can’t depend on an industry to raise your child for you. In the end, though, Coleman was let down by a lot of people. There’s more than enough blame to go around.
Through the Shattered Lens 