I have to admit that, when I see Joe Estevez’s name in the credits, I’m usually not expecting to see him cast as a saintly man whose faith holds his family together and gives people a reason to keep on living.

That’s nothing against Joe Estevez.  Estevez is the youngest brother of actor Martin Sheen and there’s definitely a family resemblance between the two.  That said, while Martin is best-known for playing priests and absurdly left-wing presidents, Joe Estevez has often been cast as villains.  If Joe Estevez plays a cop, you can bet he’ll turn out to be dirty.  If he plays a politician, he’ll turn out to be corrupt.  If he’s a CEO, you can bet his company is going to be pouring sludge into the reservoir.  Some actors just get typecast as villains and that seems to be the case with Joe Estevez.

That makes My Brother’s Crossing a definite change-of-pace.  Estevez appears as Bobby Clark, a former fireman who rides a motorcycle and who tells all of his bickering relatives, including brother JT (Daniel Roebuck), that they need to turn their lives over to God.  Bobby is married to Pam (Eliza Roberts) and they’re both beloved members amongst their community.

One night, both Bobby and Pam are killed when they collide with a car.  The driver of the car is CJ Martin (James Black), a pastor.  As a stunned CJ sits in an ambulance, he’s approached by a biker (Duane Whitaker) who introduces himself as Pastor Mike Price.  Pastor Mike says a prayer over CJ.  As he walks away, he’s approached by two EMTs who say, “Pastor, we want to serve your God.”  Mike looks up to Heaven and gives praise to Bobby for bringing people to God, even in death.

Yep, this is one of those movies.  It’s a low-budget, not particularly well-made, painfully slow faith-based movie.  CJ is forgiven by Bobby’s daughter and indeed, the entire Clark family eventually comes to forgive him.  He’s even invited to eat dinner with surviving members of the family.  At first, JT is driven by his need for revenge but, ultimately, he not only insists that CJ not be charged with vehicular manslaughter but he also pays CJ’s fine for reckless driving.  “Praise Jesus,” CJ says.  Oh, the mixed feelings!  I’m all about forgiveness but everything about the accident suggests that the vehicular manslaughter charge was totally justified.  Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be consequences for their actions.

To be honest, though, I almost feel guilty about giving this film a negative review, just because it’s based on a true story and it’s told so earnestly (if also amateurishly).  My father died a few months after he was involved in a car accident.  This woman and her lawyers attempted to sue his estate after he passed and, for months, I was consumed by hatred for her and the people representing her in court.  Eventually, I realized that I had to let go of that hate and I had to forgive her, if just so I could move on.  That doesn’t mean that I’m obligated to like her, though.  I did give that some thought while I watched this movie and that’s probably the compliment that I can give My Brothers’s Crossing.